My advice:
- Always be interviewing
- Never stay somewhere longer than 2-4 years
- Don't take on extra work or go above and beyond
- Try to work two or more remote jobs
- Kiss your boss' ass
- Never take a stand on anything
My advice:
- Always be interviewing
- Never stay somewhere longer than 2-4 years
- Don't take on extra work or go above and beyond
- Try to work two or more remote jobs
- Kiss your boss' ass
- Never take a stand on anything
I can honestly say I not only don’t follow these rules, I think I follow almost their direct opposite, and despite many around me being laid off I never have been even when voluntary redundancy was being offered and applying for it, I have more than enough money to walk away from a job if I want to.
If you find every workplace so hateful that you must follow these rules have you considered that the problem might actually be you?
Always ask yourself _does my manager want this, or do I think my manager will want this when I'm done with it?_.
Also, you never take a stand on anything in the sense that _you never want to be the only person in the room advocating for something longer than a couple sentences_.
Adults are just as nasty as middle schoolers, but to your face, they won't say a thing. They are old enough to have learned its easy and feels good to shit on other people, and it is hard and feels bad to have a Discussion(tm).
Hold yourself and those around you to high standards and you’ll develop a keen sense for when people aren’t doing the same.
That helps you avoid the shitty companies and bosses that make these coping mechanisms seem necessary.
"If you stand for nothing, Burr, what'll you fall for?" (c)
What, routinely?
No.
You work too much.
TL;DR: It is theorized that the author (Robert Greene) studied classics and wanted to write a book about influential leaders throughout history, but the only way to get such a book green-lit by a publisher was to wrap the history around a "self-help for men" context, which naturally gravitates towards building empires and making more money. This is why, like many self-help books, the advice is dubious, but unlike almost all self-help books, the historical anecdotes are extremely correct.