Users raising their concern started three days ago. That's not enough for this process to have concluded already.
Here's a recent message by Eli (and the message he is responding to).
> I'm hoping the old behavior stays the default and the new behaviour
> is what users can opt in with a variable.
>
> If that is what normally happens for much less disruptive changes,
> why isn't it happening for this deep impacting one?
Because the original discussion of these changes, between two people
who were interested and involved, indicated that the new behavior
makes much more sense than the old one. Now, that others chimed in
with the opposite views, we are still discussing what should be the
behavior, and once that is concluded, we can talk about the defaults.
So I think this has been blown way out of proportion. IMO there are some serious issues in how Emacs is developed. I don't have a solution but I think that us users/package-maintainers thinking to ourselves "gee there sure are a lot of stubborn people on emacs-devel, what's wrong with them?" and then the second a change is made that we strongly disagree with, we start behaving like the world is ending, that might be a problem. This is how maintainers get defensive (you might have noticed that in the projects that you maintain).