Virtually every step in the iFixit upgrade guide for separating the screen glued onto my iMac was followed by "if you do this wrong you'll crack the screen" so I've stuck with it as a beautiful screen for connecting to other more powerful machines.
That said, I definitely agree and advise: Before you order parts to upgrade things, check whether you feel up for the install procedure.
[1] https://de.ifixit.com/Anleitung/iMac+Intel+17-Inch+RAM+Repla...
[2] https://de.ifixit.com/Anleitung/iMac+Intel+17-Inch+Hard+Driv...
(Especially the old aluminum ones, they just had magnets holding the front bezel in place)
That said, the RAM is user-accessible on these older iMacs from a tray at the bottom edge of the screen.