Also a complicating factor with kernel upgrades is that while zfs release notes clearly delineate what kernel versions are supported that information doesn't appear to be meaningfully encoded in package metadata so if you use new enough kernels compared to the version of zfs for your distro it is possible to front run support. For instance 2.2.2 supports up to 6.6 but you could very well for instance install 6.7 and it might not work.
The somewhat broken thing is not encoding known data like which kernel is supported to automatically do the right thing in the packaging system not the filesystem. The lazy fix is to just manually handle kernel updates. The lazier one is to grab the release notes and update if latest kernel is <= supported.