If you have DKIM,DMARC,SPF and the reverse DNS of the mailserver is set to the correct domain you have no problem. Well.. except for GMX and yahoo which frequently block me for a few hours when multiple parents register at the same time
It’s a hard way to guess how good is the implementation on the receiver, like GMX, Libero or other big country providers with “historical” service that don’t care about them too much.
Occasionally I turn up in spam when I email someone I haven't before, but that's usually due to the .ro in my domain and the forced text mode rather than html.
I've found problems only start occuring when you send transactional email. User signups, notifications, etc. Anything really automated.
I think people like to joke on self hosting email because there are a lot of moving parts and it was hard to diagnose why something went wrong. Until the last decade and early 2010s there were no all in one self hosted solutions that made it easy & available for most to do it.
Just proved my point.
Google knew this because they even issued warnings.
Still, using your own domain and machine is different.
Unless you've had an interaction with that email address it will be considered SPAM.
Its not really proof of much unless one is constantly getting junked