are you using anxiety with a bit of hyperbole here, or is it really making you anxious? I can see it being confusing and needing extra time to really look at it rather than being instantly obvious, but it's nothing to cause stress. It's just a setting/option. It's not going to cause significant issues if misinterpreted. You can just set it the other way, and do it again.

Is this the same thing that separates those that like to mash all the buttons and twist all the knobs to see what happens vs those that don't want to touch anything because they don't know what will happen?