> Is there a philosopher who defends proximity?
Larry Temkin did, when I took two of his ethics undergraduate courses in the 90s. It was a brief side point he was making, to contrast with arguments of the form "Do you believe you'd have an obligation to jump in a lake, and ruin your clothes, to save someone from drowning? If so, the same reasoning implies you have to give all your money to charity."
He described it as "participating in a morality" where one has a heightened sense of obligation to one's immediate community.
Temkin was a PhD student of Parfit, and is well known in his own right. We read Parfit's Reasons and Persons in his class, and he also invited Parfit to campus so we could hear him give a guest lecture. The questions afterwards, coming from Temkin's faculty colleagues, were quite feisty.
A wonderful and deeply memorable experience.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Larry_Temkin