I used to work in a rural manufacturing plant. I once totaled my car on the way to town. Our shop foreman was also a volunteer firefighter and was the first one on the scene. I survived with a bloody nose and shattered confidence. The next day at work we needed some parts from town. I didn't have a car anymore, but that same shop foreman lent me his suped up pickup truck. I was totally confused. He wisely said:

"Today is the safest day to let you drive my truck, cause I know you'll be extra careful"