> There are no parasitics, it's a topological phenomenon.

This is why my only use of the word was in quotes. I'm not disagreeing. RF people, where these effects are non-negligible/primary, embrace this topological reality completely, with their tooling. What you're saying isn't new, it is known. The only people calling it "parasitics" are coming from the simplified models, where these effects were negligible or mitigated by some rule-of-thumb to make them negligible.

There has been work on what you're saying for many decades, as can be seen in the tooling. The AI aspect of it has been attempted through the decades, without success, yet. But, this is a very active area of research.