> improving any little thing can be such an insane slog.
One of the possible improvements here is to make procedural changes that nobody in particular sees an obvious need to oppose, but that make good things easier.
For example, make it easier to repeal laws than pass them. Most legitimately good laws have broad public support and would survive. But controversial bullshit that only passed as a result of midnight shenanigans would be gone by the next open session and it would weaken the incentive for omnibus bills because the bad bits could be repealed piecemeal with less than the consensus necessary to pass the omnibus to begin with.
> At some point there was some hope for "lobbying as a service" - for example with EFF or ACLU - but that wave has mostly failed also.
The trouble here is that these organizations can move a certain number of votes, but not nearly as many as large media and tech companies through their control over content on their platforms. So when that's who's on the other side, you have problems.
Which is, in a sense, a technical problem. You could reduce their undue influence through legislation or government action, but that's chicken and egg. Whereas if you get people to stop using their platforms in favor of alternatives, they have less influence, and then they have less control.
There has been a meme for a decade or so that normal people don't care about things tech nerds care about and aren't going to make even minor sacrifices to gain an advantage over the institutions subjugating them. "There is no point in you doing it because you'll be alone." This meme is presumably promoted people who enjoy the status quo, because history is full of examples to the contrary, when people refuse to be indoctrinated into defeatism.