Cars have been getting ridiculously large over the past decades because the only force acting upon carmakers is the desire of the car buyer.
If I’m buying a car, I obviously want the largest car I can afford and semi-reasonably fit where I’m going to be. This has many benefits for me, but a lot of negative externalites for everyone around me.
That is why policies need to discourage larger cars in many ways, to keep the average size in check, so to speak.