America confuses me sometimes!
At least the seller agent side. You need to advertise somewhere and someone doing it full time is much more efficient, in spreading the marketing. Some level buyer agent gathering what is available if they did that is also logical.
Here not in USA. Buyer agents are more rarely used, but advertisement was taped to my building this week. But for seeing what is available agencies made lot of sense. And still do the paperwork and take somewhat better pictures or are around to show property.
(That accounts for the split. That doesn't account for whomever the agent works for taking whatever cut.)
My home state (Washington) is the 4th-most expensive state in the country. In the Seattle area, a senior software engineer makes about $275k on average. Meanwhile, the average house price in 2022 was $650k. Easy math here - an experienced agent will make $6.5k on a sale in WA. (Yes, it would be higher in Seattle - but real estate doesn't necessarily concentrate in the same way as engineering talent, so I don't think that's a fair comparison.) Thus, an agent would need to be the buying or selling agent in 42 sales per year to make as much as a senior engineer.
Selling agents probably sell ~30 houses a year in a really strong market, so even in peak COVID relocation times, less than a senior software engineer in a similar location.
On the other side of things, when my wife and I bought in the competitive market of 2021, we probably toured about 30 houses. We put offers in on eight of them. Our agent coordinated inspections and was present for all of them. I'd guess they put in, conservatively, 60 hours of work for our house. We paid $670k, so our agent got around $6.7k for those 60 hours of work - around $110/hr, or a lot less than I was making as a senior engineer at Dropbox at the same time (almost twice that).
tl;dr, no, they probably don't earn more per hour than a senior software engineer at a high-paying company, unless the real estate agent also happens to live in San Francisco.
Why do you need two agents though? Isn't one enough to do all the paperwork and inspections? As for advertisement, I guess today it can be totally automated.
Then there are a few that are great at marketing themselves and can make truly insane money.
I still think 6% is too high, there are just too many RE agents out there right now. It was seen as an easy job to make decent money until the recent slow down.
What's surprising is that this competition doesn't reduce the fee rate, that's the part I don't understand.
-- In any market, there are agents with a range of compensation options. It really isn't as straightforward as the "6%" that the public believes.
-- Brokerages more than agents set the commission. So you can have loads of new agents in a market and it won't change the commission.
-- It costs money to represent buyers and sellers. Drones, video, photography, glossy magazine spreads, social media, advertising buys, brokerage, MLS, and other fees, signs, key boxes - I can spend thousands on a property listing or dozens+ hours with a buyer with absolutely no guarantees that I'm going to get paid.