After stopping, even one cup makes me jittery and I no longer feel like I need to drink coffee to feel awake.
Caffeine dependence is terrible and widespread.
There are plenty of reasons to not want to be dependent on caffeine, but I wouldn't put its dependence in the terrible category.
I regularly give up either (a) using caffeine only pills and breaking them to linearly decrease caffeine dose, or (b) measured reduction of instant coffee over time.
Start at your current caffeine intake, every morning take one dose (might start high) and reduce slowly over say 3 weeks. It requires significant patience and self-control, but it has worked for me. My main problem is ensuring I don't have social coffees: it is easy to fall back into the habit of drinking coffee if I don't follow the titration regime.
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