Waking up early, 10 tips that worked for me
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It's the best approach when sane-me wakes up first, but usually a totally different personality wakes up first. It can justify almost anything in its effort to stay in bed. Kinda creepy actually, it's what I'd imagine having a multiple personality disorder is like. It's not even a voice, I am not "me" when I wake up :-)
"This advert for conservatories? Oh, I'll just stay in bed until the end of the commercials.. ooh, I've not heard this Rihanna song for a few hours, just one more song.."
When I set the alarm the night before I can budget my time appropriately. 30 minutes to get where I need to go, 15 minutes for morning chores, 20 minutes for breakfast, etc. I'll add an extra 10 minutes for unpredictability, set my alarm, and go to sleep.
Then when I wake up, I can hit that snooze button because apparently 60 - 9 minutes is plenty of time to get 50 minutes of stuff done. Then I hit it again, because I'm sure I can just do things a little quicker. 60 - 18 is plenty of time to get 50 minutes of stuff done.
Finally I get up and start to wonder how I ever rationalized that I could get 50 minutes of stuff done in 30 minutes.
It reminds me of when I was on prescription pain medications after a surgery.
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My low-tech version is putting the alarm clock on the other side of the room :-)
Much like the GP poster, I'm usually not myself when awakened by an alarm. I can go 30 feet to turn off an alarm and return to bed without ever really being awake. Having to do some multiplication and division wakes up the more rational parts of my brain.
See also: http://lesswrong.com/lw/ase/schelling_fences_on_slippery_slo...
Later, I would invent crazy excuses, or just tell about my monstrous condition.
What worked for me was (1) going to bed at a reasonable hour and being sure I got 8 full hours of sleep, (2) giving up coffee, and (3) going running every morning (I lived next to golden gate park, totally worth it). I was able to get up early, got tons more done in the morning, and I also got in shape. Best thing I've ever done.
I also used my computer as an alarm clock for a little while. I wrote a program that would set the windows volume to whatever value (0 to 100) was passed as a commandline argument and then I set up the task scheduler to run it in the morning. This way, I could play music quietly at night and in the morning the volume got cranked up to 100% to wake me. Worked well until one morning there must have been a power outage and my computer was off...
Solving puzzles to turn off an alarm doesn't work for me either - my still asleep self is quite clever at pulling plugs, taking out batteries or simply just smashing a persistent alarm.
Luckily, unless I'm really tired (eg go to bed at 6am, get up at 8am), I normally wake up before I need to get up. Actually getting up is a lot harder than waking up tough.
"You think another 30 minutes will be fine, but remember how you always regret that afterwards? Remember how you spend the rest of each day wishing you'd got up 30 minutes earlier? Do you want to be that pathetic, regretful person again today?"
Of course, Sleep Self would probably reply "Hell yes, bed is awesome!"
It's somewhat scary at first, going without an alarm, but I discovered after doing the above two things that I was tending to wake up before my alarm, and ready to start my day. After a few weeks, I decided to give it a go, and have been off the alarm for a year. In fact, I think now that having an alarm was much more stressful and got in the way of getting a good night's rest, despite the fact that I now wake up earlier.
Getting to sleep at a decent hour helps, and waking up early leaves me tired at night. I avoid caffeine after noon and tried to avoid sitting in front of a computer screen during the last half hour before sleep. But I credit the early meal and sunlight most.
So yes, kill the alarm. (I will use it for an early flight or medical appointment, things that can't give way by an hour, but absolutely not for the daily commute.) It really does create stress.
I find when I'm getting regular exercise, I open my eyes in the morning and I'm awake and ready to go. It's the opposite when I've been lazing around for a few weeks not doing my physical activity.
Forcing yourself to wake up early for the sake of waking up early is destructive as it means your body has not gotten enough sleep yet. Your going to either have impeded judgement capability, diminished work energy or both. A lot of people pretend this doesn't happen to them; they under perform for years or sometimes their whole life.
Being a business owner associating with a lot of people with the worst sleeping schedules imaginable I have a pretty good idea what causes serious sleep problems.
That said, most average people can fix their sleep problems just through being active.
Here are a few things that are a really big deal:
1. Wind down work hours before your ready.
2. Shut off most of your lights. Especially the horrid blue lights that so many electronics emit.
3. Don't do drugs. Yeah, if your snorting cocaine on the weekends expect to have some problems sleeping for the rest of the week.
4. Be on a regularly eating schedule. My sleep disruptions go hand in hand with meal disruptions.
I travel to trade shows and have 24 hour days. When I go back home, my sleep schedule goes back on track within 48 hours. This is coming from someone who, over half a decade ago, spent years attempting to stop a 26 hour day cycle (meaning your sleep plus awake time always ads up to over 24 hours a day resulting in no predictable sleep pattern.)
Most importantly, do not consume caffeine. No coffee, no tea!
http://chadao.blogspot.com/2008/02/caffeine-and-tea-myth-and...
Check it out here: http://stereopsis.com/flux/
1. The title of the article is "Waking up early", not "how to have more productive hours in the day"
2. I'm personally much more interested in the health benefits gained by exercising so I have no doubt it's worth it.
Heavy deadlifts & rack pulls: I sleep like the dead. Squats can have a similar effect.
Rowing, swimming, cycling, or other cardio: not so bad.
I listen to that voice every day. My alarm goes off at 4:30 AM, I doze for another ten minutes, and then I get up promptly at 4:40 AM. YMMV, but for me, that last ten minutes makes the difference between staggering out of bed feeling ill and half-zonked, and rising awake and alert.
Best way I find to fight the "snooze button" effect is to have a reason to get up. Make sure there is no way to rationalize another 10 minutes. I have to be out by X:Y0AM, and must do P D & Q before, and any delay will screw that up - so I have to get up when the alarm goes off, no matter how much I hate the fact DST means it's just as dark out as when I went to bed.
Once up, the next step is JUICE. A shot of sugar, in a healthy format, to stimulate blood sugar levels and get energy going. That's enough to get the rest of the process going.
Toddlers help. Get 'em to bed so they'll get up when you want to get up. Nothing is more irresistible than 2.5' of "Da Da! Milk!"
Final tip: don't care. Doesn't matter whether you want to get up or not, just friggin' do it. Between this and other issues, I've largely eradicated the "I do/dont' want to" mindset: I don't care, it doesn't matter what I want, just do it because it has to be done.
Hopping out of bed right when I wake up, even if it costs me 30 - 45 minutes of extra sleep, makes it so much easier.
My fiance has been using this alarm application where she inputs the time she's going to bed and it shows best and worst times within the sleep cycle to be woken, it works well. I have a feeling this is what I'm doing on my own by getting up when I wake up.
On nights when I get less than seven and a half hours of sleep, it's like I'm a different person immediately after waking up: I don't care what my future or previous self wants. I only want to go back to sleep.
On nights when I give myself eight or more hours to sleep, I will wake up on time without any external prompt (including the alarm). It's a lot easier to be rational about time at the end of a day than it is at the beginning.
The most important thing for me is not giving in to staying up late. My brain wants to do it, but I have to say no.
Let me just point out that this is totally not normal. I drink 10-15 (20-oz) cups of coffee a week, in addition to caffeinated sodas, and when I'd go off caffeine for a few weeks (as I used to do regularly), I'd have 2-3 days of feeling depressed from normal, and a very mild but persistent headache over the first 1-2 days of it. If someone has caffeine withdrawal symptoms for a month, I'd think something else is wrong.
I am quite aware of the differences between a human infant and a cat.
My ex-girlfriend at the time, would get up to feed cats.
So he'd bug her on the mornings she was in, and snuggle up with me on the mornings she wasn't.
Same cat learned not to beg at the dinner table for food. Even when sushi was being served. And yes, he loved salmon. Begging resulted in treats -- of wasabi applied to the nose.
He learned after the 2nd time.
TL;DR: with a sufficiently trainable cat, this doesn't work.
All of which is just corroborating the linked post: just do it. Make yourself go to sleep at a reasonable hour. Make yourself wake up, by whatever means you want. You'll find you adapt surprisingly well.
I've found that hitting the general 1.5 hour sleep cycle pattern works for me (i.e. the amount of sleep you get is a multiple of 1.5) much better than anything else in terms of actually getting up and feeling well rested.
It is extremely difficult for me to get up and go to bed at the same time every day (not to mention unnecessarily inconvenient), but if I can get exactly 6 hours of sleep every night (or 7.5 if I'm feeling particularly tired), I can wake up easily at any time and feel well rested.
Having said that, you should have a good reason for waking up early aside from "I want to be one of those guys that get up super early; they seem to do so much work before I even open my eyes." For me, it was a couple of reasons: - doing my morning power walk before all the traffic (so I can put in my earbuds and crank up the noise) - getting stuff done before everyone else wakes up and messages/emails/calls... start - prepping most of my food for the day so that I save more time - avoiding evenings when I have to do a lot of work so I can focus more on reading/learning
It also helps if you're tough on yourself. I know I won't achieve what I want by irregular sleeping schedule and spoiling myself. And if there is ever a late night I still get up at the same time; I just take a caffeine pill later in the day.
I've tried a number of times to rise early, but I've never managed to do it consistently. When considering to get up, I can't convince myself that i HAVE to get up, since I can do what I want to do later anyways.
It seems that, on my own, the reasons are not strong enough for me to get up: the only thing that worked was when I had a commitment with a group of friends to swim at 7AM with them.
Yes, a "great writeup" that makes a ton of controversial assertions which are, at best, tenuously supported by a smattering of cherry-picked studies interspersed between non-academic articles.
I'm not impressed.
You need to start getting up earlier? Go to bed early enough to get the sleep you need and when your alarm goes off the next day, just get out of bed. No tricks, special techniques needed. Don't hit snooze. Don't delude yourself into "I'll just rest my eyes for a minute." Don't justify staying in bed for another 15 minutes because you set the alarm early. Just get the hell out of bed. And stick to doing it until it becomes a habit.
Is it really that hard for most people? It's just self discipline.
http://fishbowl.pastiche.org/2003/10/07/just_is_a_fourletter...
http://c2.com/cgi/wiki?JustIsaDangerousWord
http://www.oreillynet.com/onlamp/blog/2003/08/cant_you_just_...
Or, for a more specific counterpoint,
We're talking about getting out of bed without procrastinating. If it's difficult, you either haven't had enough sleep or you're being lazy. Getting enough sleep may be difficult, but it's typically not an insurmountable problem. Being lazy is even easier to fix.
Really? Please, do describe your fix for laziness, if it's so easy.
Saying "just be less lazy" is exactly the same as saying "just exert more willpower", and neither is even remotely useful to people whose problems you're belittling as being "just laziness / poor willpower". No therapist would say that to any client for any problem, as they know it would, at best, be completely useless. It's an insult - "you're lazy / weak-willed!" - masquerading as advice.
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Disclaimer: Sorry for plugging my own project, but it seemed too relevant to this discussion to ignore.
* Keep the coffee machine in the bedroom. Before going to bed, load it up with water and coffee put the alarm clock next to it. Also have a cup and some milk next to it. Next morning, when the clock goes off, you're going to have to walk over there anyway so you might as well turn on the coffee machine. Now you can go back to dozing off but after a few minutes, the scent and prospect of the readily available coffee should make getting up much easier, plus you can sip the coffee in bed.
* Count to ten, and get up on ten.
* Take melatonin the night before to go to sleep on time in the first place.
* Log your sleeping hours to get an idea of what irregular or overlong sleep is costing you in terms of time.
1. Sleep exactly 7 hours a night at the exact same time (+/- delta) and wake up at the same time.
2. Use the same awful alarm that wakes me up. The alarm doesn't sound alarming, its just that when I hear it, I have to wake up because it is tied with so many memories of waking up in the morning for exams. In fact after switching to an iPhone which doesn't have the same alarm, I have found it (slightly) difficult to wake up.
I have no issues with getting out of bed and getting productive when I wake up; the issue has been waking up at all.
Most heart attacks occur in the morning.
Long/short it monitors your sleep state and wakes you during the best time. I've never in my entire life been a morning person; I recently had enough struggling with my startup and took a fulltime job and decided to be the early guy. Have been to work 7:30 or early without issue for nearly two months.
And most shocking, I feel great, fully awake and don't have any tiredness. Great product.
I'd say it comes off maybe twice a month or so. Mostly I think this is me moving around at night but it hasn't caused me any issue waking up, I have a pattern where I wake-up around 3am to go to the bathroom (and/or let my cat out) so when it has happened, I notice I'm not wearing it and throw it back on when I get back into bed. I've never had it come off and wake up in the morning without it on.
The only other issue to be aware of, the software can be a bit buggy. I updated it last week on a trip and it killed the app (would open, but as soon as I put the headband on it closed itself). I ended up having to remove it entirely from my iPhone and pull it down 'clean' from the appstore. Minor, but I lost my settings which were pretty easy to re-add.
Edit: I forgot to mention I use to be a caffeine addict in the morning, starting my day with a mountain dew, and in recent more healthy years, switched to green-tea. I no longer drink anything other than water with my morning vitamins. This is probably the most striking thing I've noticed about waking up at the 'right time'.
It probably depends on your mattress how well it works. If you've got a foam mattress or one of those ones with commercials of dropping bowling balls next wine glass towers, then yeah, maybe your phone won't pick it up. But it seems to work well enough with my cheap mattress.
In the morning, I can definitely see spikes on the graph for times I know I woke up to pee, so it's definitely detecting something. I don't know about those reviews that say they still get graphs with it left on the dresser; I've not tried that test.
The hardest thing is coping with friends whose schedules are offset so much from mine. For me, waking up this early means I need to go to bed around 8-9pm. So, I don't wake up this early every day. For those with trouble sleeping so early, I find melatonin useful for sleeping earlier.
The problem with doing it consistently is that it works great until that one Friday night when you stay up till 3 AM, which screws up your schedule for the next week.
This one is big - simple change, drastic results.
You may have to force yourself at first. :)
It's become a habit, and it changes my mood so that I want to get up and about.
1) Feed cat(s) wet-food in the morning
the cat(s) will not let you sleep until you get up to feed them...guaranteed.
if you don't have a cat
1) place obnoxious alarm out of range
It's surprising to me that yerba is just starting to catch on in the US.
You should try it some time with a little bit of milk and peppermint syrup. It's heavenly :).