>> I would make sure that my kids could program computers. It is among the newer arts but also among the most essential
I've got kids. 1 can program. 1 tried it, and didn't like it. 1 just rolled her eyes at me.
Turns out, for most people, programming is not like reading or writing at all. Got a question? Ask Google (or GPT) or Alexa. 99% of people can't code, and will never need to code.
You may as well argue that cooking healthy food is a universally needed skill. Or riding a bicycle, or kicking a ball. All are of course really helpful life skills, but lots of people get by in the world just fine without them.
So as one parent to another, I can tell you that you don't need to worry about this. It's good you have plans for your children. But don't worry too much about it. Turns out children will learn what they are interested in, and pretty much ignore the rest. They'll grow up, change, mature and become functional people in their own right.
No doubt you'll get plenty of eye rolls along the way.