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> "Does Anyone Feel Like an Actual Adult?"

Yes, I am an adult and have grown into a pretty cynical one, probably will continue to do so till I eventually transform into an old coot. Having a wife with Amber Heart (BPD / crazy b**h) syndrome which I haven't divorced (yet) solely for the sake of the kid doesn't help either.

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I know a teen girl with BPD. Holy smokes! I mean this sincerely - you have my empathy. I’m sure I can’ begin to know what it’s like to live with that. I hope she fan find some medication or something that brings peace. BPD is not a small thing.

I just launched a full-scale offensive attack against my wife's never ending skirmishes. I'm a nice guy but also compared to my wife, in intellectual, physical and first and foremost, expendable capital resources, I'm the Roman Empire versus Dacia.

She crossed the Rubic^H^H^H^H^H Danube one time too many.

I would give that relationship the Carthaginian solution.

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