Why stunned? The author reiterates 2 times that neither maps should be used in unsafe way.
Look at this from the point of code analysis - if "a bit more thread-safe" map is used - you have less chances to detect the problem in local testing & and may be surprised in prod. And, you may be even more surprised when switching to unordered map.
Usually, any big app has a huge tail of very rare crashes that nobody has time to fix, ever. Those rare crashes are indistinguishable from some system/hardware related faults (system OOM, system trying to kill an app, battery dying, bit flipping due to radiation/faulty silicon). And that's the point - if you are planning to change map to unordered map - look at the crashes list around map invocations and try to understand, if any of them are due to multithreading and not system/hw...