>In life, no one gets off scot-free.
That statement borders on cosmic woo-woo, but you make a good point about comparing your insides to other people's outsides.
Not everyone is as happy/perfect as they appear in their well-groomed public profile.
That statement borders on cosmic woo-woo, but you make a good point about comparing your insides to other people's outsides.
Not everyone is as happy/perfect as they appear in their well-groomed public profile.
Perhaps it is how you deal with that truth that limits you.
Every good thing is balanced by some bad thing, or vice versa - that's mystical bollocks.
I wasn't sure which side of the line the OP was coming down on.
Be kind to people and don't prejudge. Grudge and jealousy are hideous, crippling afflictions (and its half of what's wrong with us as a species) and they don't help you in the time of your own need.