I beg to disagree. Maybe this explanation is English-specific, i.e. many languages have a much stricter grammar that children learn for a decade or so?
I beg to disagree. Maybe this explanation is English-specific, i.e. many languages have a much stricter grammar that children learn for a decade or so?
Consider these sentences:
1. The angry man complained to the manager.
2. The angry about his food man complained to his manager.
3. The man angry about his food complained to the manager.
I won't get into the details of everything that's going on here, but (3) is much "better" than (2), and kids naturally learn that you need to move "angry" or any other adjective to the other side of its noun when it gets a prepositional phrase complement. No parent is ever telling their kid (except a linguist parent, maybe, since they love making their kids subjects), "Remember, Jon, when the adjective has a _complement_, it needs to come _after_ the noun rather than before it."
It's making me wonder if language learning ability might be linked to this grammar-annoyance effect, that those who can be more accepting of (for them, internally or naturally) "wrong" grammar in other contexts (i.e. other languages) will learn quicker than those who stubbornly refuse to drop the innate grammar rules they know even when the context changes and they're no longer correct.
However, I think at least a significant subset of grammar is only learned implicitly, never taught in school. The classic example of this is adjective order (https://www.grammarly.com/blog/adjective-order/): native English speakers know that “the nice orange cat” sounds better than “the orange nice cat”, but most can’t explain why.
Divjak sounds like a slavic last name. English probably wasn’t their first language.
That said, in Slovenia we get about a decade of formal grammar training for our native language because it’s so complicated. But we learn it descriptively more than prescriptively. Yes it helps you write and speak formal Slovenian but we are always thought that “When in doubt, do what feels right and you’ll probably get it right”.
When learning a second language, you’re learning grammar so you can use the rules instead of the gut feel you don’t yet have.
edit: looks like she did undergrad in Poland so likely intimately familiar with non-english first languages
Grammar is a powerful, mature abstraction that applies widely and well. When I miscommunicate, I think about why and how to prevent it. Often the problem has already been solved in English grammar.