Realtors in the US, when compared to those in pretty much any other first world country, are definitely overcharging for their services, and, according to at least one judge, they colluded to keep commissions artificially high [0]
> It seems to me like so many people are chasing the dream Disney sold them on the world rather than realizing they might have to compromise.
And why is that?
It maddens me that, generation after generation, people have been told to aim high, get a job, work hard, get a degree, move out, see the world, etc. Turns out, now people in their thirties have to "compromise" or "settle" on buying their first homes at half the size, twice the price, and ten years later than their parents, likely earning a relative third less as well.
[0] https://www.cbsnews.com/news/realtors-liable-for-1-8-billion...
A typical starter home in the 70's and 80's was 1200 square feet. I don't think people today are buying 600 square foot houses.
Well, it's the generation after Reagan came in with the whole monetarist trickle-down thing, but yes.
Sometimes I think the toxicity of this situation (and it's not just the US) fuels in large part the tendency for people to believe in conspiracy theories about secretive cabals keeping them down. And in a way, it's kinda true too when it comes to housing. You're told you're living in a land of democratic opportunity, wealth and justice. Yet somehow...
I'll just focus on your first point: patience. You might be right there but as you pointed out the last four years have been rough for buyers and patience can only last so long. Gotta understand a buyer getting traumatized by having to bid on a house they haven't even toured, buyers given only 15 minutes to view a house, 20+ offers on a house, offering $20k over asking and still not getting it. With no end in sight.
The world isn’t quite as black or white.
What is up for debate and highly contested is whether the commissions collected are commensurate with that value.
The old pre-internet world had deep informational asymmetry via the MLS. Realtors were magical in that they could bring forth magical houses at magical price points and the commissions “felt” like value. And more than being a facilitator, the realtor also played part as pseudo-therapist and mind reader reading situational cues to find good fits for their clients.
However, I’d argue that several things have sullied the relationship over time.
1. The low-ish barrier to entry to become a realtor. Made for a lot of professionals that could coast on value adding activities. So the client who feels that they would have never found or sold their dream property or deal has become less and less so.
2. The democratization of information via the internet has pushed the labor of searching for properties to the client.
3. The democratization of loan broker services via the internet have reduced what a seasoned buyer would have to go through to obtain financing.
So this has reduced the realtor from value adder along the whole process to merely door opening facilitator.
Now that the genie is out of the bottle, it’s not going back, but the question is, is the value offered today, still commensurate with percentages charged as Realestate prices continually go up?
The average home is ~$425k and a commission is 5%.
I've never met any Realtor that brought $22k in value to a simple single family home transaction.
From
https://www.forbes.com/advisor/mortgages/can-you-transfer-a-...
"Loans backed by the Federal Housing Administration (FHA), U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA) and Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) are typically assumable. Conventional mortgages, on the other hand, usually aren’t assumable. Instead, conventional mortgages typically come with a due-on-sale clause—meaning the loan must be paid off if you want to transfer the property title."
I'll take you up on that. Is there a way to post a specific price I want to pay, and then pay the realtor x% of the difference between what I set and what I actually pay? For example, if I set $400,000 and they find me a place at $300,000, maybe I could pay them $25,000 at a 25% difference.
Not in my area. Very few people are selling because no one wants to trade a 3% mortgage for a 7% mortgage.