As someone with a toddler, I've found myself annoyed with this already with Ms Rachel videos on youtube.
"If another kid is throwing sand at you and won't stop when you ask, tell a grown up."
No, grown ups were also raised on this garbage and won't do anything. What's the teacher going to do if the other kid won't stop? Go tell the principal? And what will they do? Nothing.
The correct thing to do is to shove the other kid. Don't hurt them; just indicate they need to back off. If they still don't, throw sand at them, and then while they're recoiling, shove them down and kick them.
Society has a major problem where proper, proportionate, defensive violence is punished, and it traces back to this kind of crap.