Another property you want (and the talk uses) is that the operator is that the operator is from V x V to something. I.e. we are multiplying two vectors (because that's what we asked for in the title) not a scalar and a vector. That excludes your counter example, but still isn't nearly enough to make it so that no multiplication operator exists.

I'll be honest and say I'm not listing properties here because I don't remember what properties are needed to make it so you can't define the operator... hopefully someone who has studied this a bit more recently or thoroughly than me can chime in.