Wars are not a matter of physical strength, being biologically weaker wouldn't prevent a woman from, say, operating a drone.
In a war, if you are anywhere near the frontline physical strength is of vital importance.
In the most basic form, can you pick up a fallen soldier and carry that soldier out of harm's way?
However, I know many women who are far stronger than me, and would be more useful in the frontline than me.
Gender is not the only factor.