I'm not saying "don't use SQLite", I'm saying "reduced n+1" problems ISN'T a good reason.
If you find out your data model was bad, and is a constraint to scaling, you can find it out without spending a lot on insanely scaled RDB instances.
I'm for the build one to throw away approach, and SQLite is often a good tool in the toolbelt for the initial attempt of this.
I did this kind of exploratory development both with SQLite and Postgres, both had different strengths and weaknesses. Had the purist clean data model with Postgres cost more than it should have when the product had to pivot the product. Also have seen the scalability limits of SQLite. Just shutting down a POC project backed by SQLite, which failed to get traction mostly because of business execution problems, and SQLite saved a lot of effort for the implementation, and using a "cleaner" and "more scalable" solution would have only reduced velocity, but would not have got us more users, the system worked fine this way (even has N+1 queries in some places). Should we got to the point that SQLite starts to become a bottleneck we could have afforded to clean the data layer (we had to rework countless times already as requirements were in a flux) up a bit and move to more scalable solution. Others might stick Firebase or MongoDB there, and it also does work for a while, and that is also a valid decision IMHO from a business perspective.
I think this is a kind of topic where the premature optimization is the root of all evil meme can apply, depending on the product you are making and the available resource pool. Not for the hello world examples of course, and not for the well defined well funded project, but there are lot of exploratory attempts out of the bigco/vc funded unicorn world.
But saying it SQLite good because no latency is weird, and saying that THAT is good because you can continue writing avoidable "I am not just lazy but I don't care about thinking about my database for 30 minutes" code... now that's a leaning tower of pisa of arguments that I can't follow.
It’s not worth our time unless they work into pages with large data sets or core flows.