"Programming in Rust is like being in an emotionally abusive relationship. Rust screams at you all day, every day, often about things that you would have considered perfectly normal in another life. Eventually, you get used to the tantrums. They become routine. You learn to walk the tightrope to avoid triggering the compiler’s temper. And just like in real life, those behavior changes stick with you forever."

This is a pretty negative and unfortunate take on rust that I cannot recognize after having spent the past 2 years professionally writing backend rust. I did write c++ before that so it's likely that it takes some experience with the pain of an unhelpful (and in some cases downright hostile) to fully understand and appreciate the so called "yelling" rust does.

From my perspective every lifetime complaint the compiler has is a deeply appreciated hint that not only saves you countless hours of debugging down the line but also makes me feel confident/safe in the code which you never could achieve in a c++ codebase without making defensive copies everywhere.

Being able to lend/borrow data without fear truely is rust's greatest strength and something people coming from GC languages have a hard time appreciating.