Parallelism in CS is a bit like security in CS. People know it matters in the abstract senses but you really only get into it if you look for the training specifically. We're getting better at both over time: just as more languages/libraries/etc. are secure by default, more now are parallel by default. There's a ways to go, but I'm glad we didn't do this prematurely, because the technology has improved a lot in the last decade. Look for example at what we can do (safely!) with Rayon in Rust vs (unsafely!) with OpenMP in C++.
And there are things even further afield like what I work on [1][2][3].