Also, fructose itself is not in such a high dose in an apple, you are far away from fructose syrup concentration which was added to everything pretty much at the same time the obesity epidemic has started.
Finally, fruits contains a lot of other beneficial nutrients, so benefits outweigh the harm fructose can do to you.
We metabolize fructose fine in reasonable doses and with fiber. It has been part of our diet for thousands of years.
It's not just the fructose. Any raw sugar is bound to have nasty-side effects. Our wheat flour is too processed, so the bread and pasta is not great for us as well. But a bit of whole pasta and bread will not spike your insulin level much.
We are, as usual, overdoing it.