> And just because life on earth is fragile, it doesn’t mean all forms of life have to be.
When it comes to life made out of molecules, there aren't that many viable options for "base components".
For example, carbon based lifeforms like stuff on Earth can harvest energy from food without spending too much energy while remaining stable enough to avoid falling apart.
Silicon has somewhat similar properties, but its compounds require stricter conditions to be useful for hypothetical life.
Some amount of fragility is actually a good thing. Not for an individual, but for life in general. Animals harvest "building blocks and fuel" for themselves from other life forms that should be "fragile" enough to eat. All the advancements of evolution are possible due to mistakes in DNA replication that should be fragile enough for mutations.