I wish Palestinians would not use the word Apartheid. It's not right and it doesn't help their cause.
https://www.hrw.org/report/2021/04/27/threshold-crossed/isra...
https://www.amnesty.org/en/latest/campaigns/2022/02/israels-...
https://www.btselem.org/topic/apartheid
But I am afraid this will fail to convince you. With Israel, I am often reminded of that old joke about the car driver claiming that everyone on the motorway is driving the wrong way.
Blanket condemnation oversimplifies a complex issue.