You know what? The equivalent of X11 in windows may be full of cruft, technical debt, poorly thought out / "unelegant" design decisions... But it fucking works. I'm sorry, but I have other things to do than dealing with the constant churn of Linux desktop software.
I remember a decade ago when everyone was supposed to switch to pulseaudio, it was the greatest thing since sliced bread, its design was solid and future proof. Migrating from alsa did break everything and was a PITA. And alsa was still there! The fix for many problems was to configure something in the venerable alsamixer. Now apparently we need to migrate to pipewire. All I know is that upgrading broke my rpi4. I don't care about the software, I just want my htpc to play a video with sound when I get back from work. I still had to run alsamixer and flip a few knobs to get it to work again. This is madness.