In regards to peering the Vultr VPS option allows dirt cheap VPSs to peer so I'd recommend checking them out first.
Question to the crowd: what's a cheap good way to get a peer for full tables? Vultr is restrictive on that, sensibly so, but it was nice/fun having my own looking glass. I used to have it with a $150/m quarter rack Colo but after my home internet went 5 gig symmetrical it seemed like a massive waste to maintain a remote Colo so I dropped that.