Nothing I've read about the Girls Around Me coverage treats the women in a patronizing tone. If anything the question is more along the lines of "D'you think they know this can happen? Can it happen with my info?"
Sure, you can point the finger at the app developers but there's a certain amount of personal awareness and responsibility that people need to develop. Social-sharing is moving faster than most people are able to comprehend. Anything that encourages discussion is a good and useful thing in my view