I`m not OP, but I don't like posts like yours because they pretend that current status (not even status, your idea about current status) will never-ever change.
I'm all ears listening to suggestions for how to realistically change the current status, I just haven't heard any reasonable ones that are actually tenable. Also, while I think there are plenty of annoyances with the current status, I rarely think they are as catastrophic as their detractors make them out to be.
At least in my thinking, which may be incorrect, is that you cannot have a society that allows everything. Because allowing oneself to be destroyed is in the set of everything.
I'm not sure how your idealism doesn't fall foul of the paradox of tolerance?