”Be Useful”
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I love this humility and wish more people would have it. Even if you weren't supported by individuals, it is due to the society around you, its infrastructure, its structure, its technology, that you are able to be a "success". We are the product of things we had no control over initially. Yet people still say "self made" ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
This seems like a pretty plain blunder.
I don't think this is particularly informative. You gotta play the hand you're dealt and make the most of it. It's not fair in the sense everyone has the same opportunities, but there's still a spectrum of accomplishments that can be achieved by any given person.
The polarization of our arguments leads us to pretty shallow poles.
Acknowledging the help of others is just not at all the same as lessening our own contributions.
I guess it is true that some folks see it that way, that if you ever thank or acknowledge anyone else then you're weak, there is this pressure to pretend that everything is original and done alone, but... that's just lying.
First, it is a problem that people don't recognize and acknowledge the external factors behind success. It leads to poor decisions, helplessness and other negative feelings, and reactivity ("why didn't you just save more of your minimum wage like I did with the interest from my trust fund?").
Second, it is a problem to see success as only determined by external factors, then you lose agency and are less likely to do as well as your opportunities allow. You are permanently "bad at math", you can only get somewhere if the Man stops pushing you down. It's the opposite of a growth mindset.
So I agree with you and somewhat with those who are responding to you.
It's just gratitude.
Nothing "crippling" about that.
If you look at someone else, and see they got where they are because of help available to them but not you, that's crippling.
Students were obsessed with picking apart people's success stories and attributing all of the success to some external factor. I can't tell you how many times I heard someone bring up Bezos just so they could tell me about the $300K loan he got, or Musk so they could talk about the emerald mine story. We tried to discourage using celebrities like Bezos or Musk as role models anyway, but people were drawn back to them because they enjoyed picking them apart.
There's something satisfying about this mindset that can explain away every success story as the result of factors out of their control. It's comforting to tell yourself that the only reason you didn't become a billionaire is because your parents didn't give you a $300K business loan or own an emerald mine or whatever other justification they could come up with.
It was a lot of work to try to defeat this mindset and get students focused on what they could incrementally accomplish within what they were working with. Honestly, getting them to let go of the celebrities like Musk and Bezos and others was half of the battle, but they also couldn't care less when we tried to introduce local successful business operators who ran companies they had never heard of.
It's tough. Social media makes it harder, and honestly the people who read Reddit seem prone to the worst of it.
It would be ridiculous to say that Picasso didn't make a painting because someone else supplied the paint. He's the one that saw the paint and the canvas and put them together in a unique way.
To not feel bad others have accomplished more?
No; I think the self-made man is dangerous because it leads people to believe 2 things:
1.) You can and should go it alone
2.) Other people shouldn't need your help.
I don't think Arnold tells his story the way he does in order to diminish his own accomplishments. It's used to highlight all the people that helped him along the way to get him to where he is. It's important to ask for help, to ask for guidance and depend on others. There's no glory in going it alone and you can be propelled immensely by relying on others to support your efforts.
Furthermore, it's important to provide a lending hand to others. Great men are built with the help of others and you have a responsibility to help others excel when you can. I think telling these stories help break the hyper-individualistic ethos of the American self-made man. Once you break this myth that so-and-so is self-made, we can make steps into re-examining how we treat our families, friends and fellow Americans (and/or countrymen). Common adages such as "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" will become more and more asinine once we understand no one is fully self-made; and I think that change in social psyche will have societal benefits.
But even if that's the argument, that's not the way OP phrased his point.
His point entirely about how the greats where just a product of their environment and not their individual greatness.
Not a discussion that seems to in anyway advance to a better progress of group or individual; but more about pettiness tbh.
I have actually seen this in many places.
One example on top my head- my neighbor was a talented video editor. Not legendary level, but okay. He eventually set up shop for editing wedding videos and such. He got contracts, he got praises and contracts in affluent families- all of this was not enough for sustaining a middle class life for an adult. He eventually set up a convenient store with the help of his father in law. He was quite old and had to move on to earn a middle class income. He did not have access to internet until early 2010s.
Now, his nephew, who is also my neighbor is also a video editor. But he got internet since he was born. He has all the resources. He has discord servers where people guide him and share resources. He is also an online gamer, and edited his own videos and posted them online. That led him to international contracts. Last month he earned US$120 working a single night.
That's HUGE for a 19 YO in small town India. Had his uncle (now in his early 40s) had all these, he would have made it big.
Circumstances do influence heavily how much a person succeeds.
I don't hold the line that equal opportunities lead to equal outcome- that doesn't happen.
But do think about the child that was born today in slavery in Libya, and a child born to a FAANG worker parent in Bay Area.
Do you think that they have equal chances of success?
And, I will also mention that Picasso had neighbors and peers. They didn't become as famed. Talent and individuality matters, too.
So its good to keep these concepts in the general awareness.
I suppose if you get a PHD, you should be thanking the factory worker that was responsible for the paper in your diploma. Should you also thank Bill Gates for providing the operating system and software that allowed you to write your thesis?
Instead, it's being used as a tactic to cut down anyone that is successful (you didn't earn that success, it was the people around you).
If success were that easy, everyone would be successful..but this just isn't reality.
I agree "success is not your own" can be weaponized, but also let's not throw the baby out with the bath water. The paper - and this humanity team we are on - did help!
Invariably, these people spend more time in online communities like Reddit and come to dominate the conversation there. They also (surprise, surprise) congregate in low skilled jobs where you can phone it in a bit.
Depending on your circles, you might not come across them much, but they are absolutely everywhere.
Another guy in the group was also a game developer, but never studied further. Someone labeled this person as a "self-made man". Which I found weird at the time, because I also put in the "self-made" work to get my Masters degree.
It's basically a concept of whatever you want to make of it. If people enjoy labeling themselves or others as "self-made", I have no problem with that. For me it holds no value at all. And for Arnold, it feels offensive because he realizes he wouldn't have the success without the support he got from the people around him.
Every success is made up of a part that you did, and a part that others did. And the part that others did will always be way bigger than your part. Shoulders of giants and all that.
The just world fallacy is one of the most harmful.
1. Self made, implying it was solely the efforts of a said persons OR
2. Product of timing, luck, circumstance, implying there was nothing special about what the said person did.
Reality is it’s probably often a mix of both. The person had help, the right environment etc but also talent and put in hard work. Maybe there is a better phrase than “self made”. “Through effort and circumstance”, but catchier.
I also remember when he was governor (I live in cali). Those years I remember less fondly. He was not very good imo but it’s impressive nonetheless that he achieved that milestone.
Once in a lifetime phenomenon. I’m really enjoying this new more thoughtful and reflective era he’s having.
EDIT: moved some words around for clarity.
> “Other pictures in the magazine showed scientists and technicians in white lab coats developing nutritional supplements in the Weider Research Clinic. “Weider Research Clinic,” I would say to myself, “this is unbelievable!” And there were pictures of airplanes with “Weider” painted on the side in big letters. I’d imagined an outfit the size of General Motors, with a fleet of planes flying around the globe delivering Weider equipment and food supplements. The writing in the magazine sounded fabulous too when my friends translated it for me. The stories talked about “blasting the muscles” and building “deltoids like cannonballs” and “a chest like a fortress.”
> And now here I was, six years later, on Venice Beach! Just like Dave Draper, only now it was me with the dune buggy and the surfboard and the adoring girls. Of course, by this time I was aware enough to see that Weider was creating a whole fantasy world, with a foundation in reality but skyscrapers of hype. Yes, there were surfboards, but the bodybuilders didn’t really surf. Yes, there were pretty girls, but they were models who got paid for the photo session. (Actually, one of the girls was Joe’s wife, Betty, a beautiful model whom he didn’t have to pay.) Yes, there were Weider supplements and, yes, some research took place, but there was no big building in Los Angeles called the Weider Research Clinic. Yes, Weider products were distributed around the world, but there were no Weider planes. Discovering the hype didn’t bother me, though. Enough of it was true.”
Of course, I don't disagree that coming from that background comes to define many parts of one's character, but to say that that's the reason for where they ended up is in my opinion a bit too reductionist.
Read the book and watch the Netflix documentary. I’m pretty sure Arnold is self-aware of his father issues. For a concrete example, Arnold’s brother dies drinking-and-driving at the age of 24. Arnold contrasts the way he was able to handle his relationship with his father compared to his deceased brother.
That said, I also struggle to see how how this guiding principle of "being useful" led him to take these actions. More likely, his real principle is, "be successful" in the dominant media view of "be famous, by doing anything you can to get there". He's selling a book with the same title as his "philosophy" so there's the real answer. I don't mean to be negative towards him, but this article reads like bullshit to me.
I see that as a path to success.
Why is that?
I’d call that being useful.
It also built a fitness industry that sells steroid gains as "hard work". I was shocked recently talking to my coworkers about Arnold, they didn't know he was on roids... The perception of what an average person thinks is achievable with "hard work" is highly distorted in this regard.
However none of those things stops you from lifting weights for strength training, which is good for your body, your skeleton, your appearance, and your mental health. If your goal is to get strong, that is attainable naturally by anyone. You just need to do it.
I am a tall, very thin male who struggles to gain weight. I can eat 5,000 calories a day while working out hard and barely gain a pound every month. I was made fun of in highschool and university for my body, and that made me very self conscious and shy. Typical "computer nerd" stuff.
From about age 20 onwards I've enjoyed and benefited from Bodybuilding immensely. It has changed how I view myself, how I view the world and changed my personality. I gained a lot of confidence, and I gained a perspective on the world I never had - doing difficult tasks and slow and steady improvements were important lessons for early 20s me.
I'll never compete, I'm not "huge" and was rarely even "big". (A few times people asked if I compete...) but I got stronger, fitter and for sure my body became a lot nicer to look at.
I'm 41 now and I'll never stop. I don't have incredible genentics, but I didn't let that stop or even slow me down.
Yes, you absolutely can shape your reality through bodybuilding.
- Lifting for fitness/looks - 100% agree - best bang for buck for self-improvement, and as you say it's about sustained incremental progress that translates well to other things.
- Rec PED use - health risks, illegal substances (not that big of a deal in terms of use, but since you can't get it legally you're basically injecting yourself with shit that's been mixed in some dudes bathroom), further downsides once you get off. This one highly depends on what you want.
- Bodybuilding as a competitive thing - here you'll get nowhere without genetics
In context of Arnolds success I'm talking about the last definition, where his success in competitive BB lead to other opportunities.
But Arnold’s first interview with Tim back in 2015 was much better (IMHO).
> "On May 17, 2001, future Republican governor Arnold Schwarzenegger and former Los Angeles Mayor Republican Richard Riordan met with Enron CEO Kenneth Lay at the Peninsula Beverly Hills Hotel in Beverly Hills. The meeting was convened for Enron to present its "Comprehensive Solution for California," which called for an end to federal and state investigations into Enron's role in the California energy crisis."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2000%E2%80%9301_California_ele...
> "According to the Foundation for Taxpayer and Consumer Rights of Los Angeles, the biggest single threat to Ken Lay and the electricity lords is a private lawsuit filed by California Lt. Gov. Cruz Bustamante under California's unique Civil Code provision 17200, the Unfair Business Practices Act. This litigation, based upon rock- solid evidence of alleged fraudulent reporting of sales transactions, megawatt "laundering," fake power delivery scheduling and straight-out conspiracy, is headed to trial now in Los Angeles. The lawsuit would make the power companies return the $9 billion they filched from California electricity and gas customers."
> "The prediction is that Gov. Schwarzenegger will now bless a sweetheart deal with the power companies that short circuits the lawsuit by way of a "settlement" of 2 cents per dollar negotiated by Bush's Federal Energy Regulatory Commission, headed by a guy originally proposed by former Enron CEO Ken Lay."
https://www.heraldtribune.com/story/news/2003/11/19/hell-wor...
Arnold then dropped the $9 billion lawsuit once in office, I think the eventual settlement was only a few hundred million. I guess he was useful.
May 2 2001 https://www.bizjournals.com/sanjose/stories/2001/04/30/daily...
> California Lt. Gov. Cruz Bustamante today filed suit against five out of state power generators, accusing them of price fixing.
> Named as defendants are Dynegy, Inc.; Duke Energy; Mirant, Inc.; Reliant Energy Inc., and Williams Energy Services.
> The suit, filed in Los Angeles County Superior Court, was joined by Assemblywoman Barbara Matthews, D-Tracy. Both entered the suit as private citizens.
Nov 26 2002 https://www.wsj.com/articles/SB1037917427814504588,
> A class-action lawsuit was filed by California Lieutenant Governor Cruz Bustamante against McGraw-Hill and a number of energy companies for allegedly conspiring to inflate natural gas and electricity prices in the California by publishing false natural gas prices. The suit was brought by Mr. Bustamante as a ratepayer and on behalf of the general public.
The initial 2002 case was dismissed:
> On November 20, 2002, California Lieutenant Governor Cruz Bustamante (“Bustamante”) filed a claim against several sellers and marketers of natural gas and gas price indices publishers in ... After the court granted a motion to dismiss filed by defendants, Bustamante filed an amended complaint on August 13, 2003 ..,
https://www.sec.gov/Archives/edgar/data/1010775/000110465905...
Hard to believe that "the biggest single threat" to Lay in 2003 (during the Enron bankruptcy proceedings and criminal investigations) was one of these Bustamante lawsuits (which did not include Lay or Enron as defendants) that the court initially agreed to dismiss.
> Arnold then dropped the $9 billion lawsuit once in office, I think the eventual settlement was only a few hundred million.
This is the part that needs a source ...
These lawsuits were filed by Bustamante as a private citizen while he was lieutenant governor, so please also explain the mechanics of the governor of California dropping a lawsuit filed by a private individual in the LA Superior Court.
I don't doubt that Bustamente's cases settled for millions rather than billions, but I would tend to attribute that to Bustamente overstating the strength of the cases and potential settlements for political purposes while campaigning for lieutenant governor in 2002 and for governor in 2003 rather than Schwarzenegger somehow intervening in the California judicial system, and there being no shortage of lawsuits against these companies and money preferentially going to claims from entities with stronger cases (i.e. not attempted class action lawsuits by private individuals)
> Bustamante’s lawyers have agreed in principal to the deal, saying they would accept a settlement of $20 million -- though that is a fraction of the money, perhaps $1 billion or more, Bustamante hoped to recover when he filed the case on behalf of overcharged California consumers.
https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2005-nov-21-me-busta...
See https://www.ferc.gov/sites/default/files/2020-05/comm-respon... and https://www.ferc.gov/industries-data/electric/general-inform... for details on some of the litigation that actually resulted in refunds from some of these energy companies ($4.5 billion by 2005, and the cases continued long after that - maybe still going)
I would question whether any of those count as useful.
a) Entertainment and arts are useful, even Stone Age hunters and gatherers left some art behind. It is part of our humanity. We obviously feel need to produce and consume art. (Maybe not you, but we the people in general.) And movies are art.
b) Big sets of people, like California is, need to be managed somehow. Individual politicians might be useless, but the office of the governor is useful.