It's weird being on the other side of the fence now - hearing the same things I used to say.
Kotlin was a gateway drug out of not just Java, but OO/Solid and into FP for me (FP being another thing I used to not "get"). The beauty of Kotlin is you don't have to ever write FP code if you don't want to - but you will want to before too long.
I would recommend trying it out for yourself. It's Spring integration is amazing, and you'll have a great time. Write even a little Kotlin and you'll have an "ah ha!" moment and everything will forever be different.
It's one of those things where you need to experience it for yourself before you actually understand how great it is. There is no argument you will hear that will convince you, sadly. I was the same once...