I was always under impression that SFTP has much more in common with SCP, than with FTP. Is that wrong?
It isn't dead and yes, of course, I know the difference between FTP and SFTP.
(To be clear, I'm talking about plain vanilla RFC-959 FTP. Yes, you can add additional security layers on top. Sadly, at least the places I've seen still use FTP are the places that still use it in vanilla config. I have no idea what your experiences are - this is a comment on the general state of FTP users.)