It
is shit-testing, only with a different taste. Shit-
tasting.
You see this in personal ads all the time. Women get so many low-effort messages they introduce a canary of sorts ("start your response with the word purple") just to filter out the ones who didn't pay any attention to their profile. Reasonable enough, right?
Where it becomes shit-testing is when their profile is a novel-length manifesto. It demands a lot of commitment upfront for no guarantee of returns. But if you're willing to put up with such demands, enjoy pursuing a relationship with someone who makes a game of testing the boundaries of others. It'll be so much fun for you.
> The only response worth serious consideration is ‘we can do this — and this is how much it will cost’.
I'd be livid if I went to the trouble of sourcing juicers, oranges and staff and providing a quote just to be told it was just a test to see if I read the contract.
Clearly, wasting others' time means nothing to the author. Does he also prank call businesses and harass the representatives to test their professionalism?
As with dating, negotiation in bad faith is not a sign of a healthy relationship to come.