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They usually come with top tier amenities. I still miss the nature in/near Seattle almost every day. The job market obviously. Food, “going out” etc

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There's nature all over. You can leave somewhere that's not Seattle but still in the PNW for substantially less money.

My point here is that what matters to a given person is pretty subjective, and, personally, I'd never live in Seattle again if I could help it -- and this is from someone who grew up just 90 miles north in Bellingham. (I'd live in Bellingham again.)

The point of TFA is that you just need to be together with friends, i.e. having dinner or hanging out at each other's houses most likely. You don't need a bunch of amenities.

We seem to be doing life backward: We live alone and expend effort to gather together, as if that’s the healthy baseline

It's easier to make new friends in a top-tier city, especially if you're the kind of person who likes those amenities.

The alternative is staying in some backwater place just because one of your friends is there, and you have absolutely nothing to do there except hang out with that friend, while being constantly frustrated with all the other aspects of life in that place.

Did you read the article?

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