You can use third-party ecosystem integrations with external SQL databases, vector databases, etc to fix some of these issues. This requires some know-how, infrastructure, and time. Zep's building blocks are turn-key solutions to these challenges and offered in a single service.
The Zep GitHub project, website, and demo video provide a good overview of the project's functionality and how the service solves these issues.
This blog post on the LangChain website offers some benchmark data using Zep vs LangChain's core memory components: https://blog.langchain.dev/zep-x-langchain-slow-chatbots/