(Later I saw the lights properly in Iceland, but it was still just a faint green haze. Can be mistaken for city glow at a glance, but if you look for a bit it becomes clear that it's moving slightly and too green. Again less than what one might be lead to expect)
Its quite wrong to assume your three month experience is representative for what you would expect to see of northern lights in Iceland and Finland.
And no I wasn't even in the far north. It was during a solar storm and I was in my own backyard in southern Michigan.
Once the aurora becomes stronger, you can absolutely see shockingly-vibrant green, pink, purple, and other colours, literally streaming/swirling/dancing across the sky. It's an unforgettable experience. I hope you have the chance to see this at full-strength sometime, and I absolutely recommend seeking it out if possible. (extra-recommended to watch while sitting in an outdoor hot tub at midnight in -10*C in Iceland, of course!)
[0] https://www.neworld.com/blog/2018/aurora-borealis-and-our-ey...
[1] https://futurism.com/how-we-see-the-aurora-borealis-camera-v...
Update: Iceland is too far north (64°N) to see the ISS (max 51.6°N). Too bad.
Edit: or based on the fireball timing, mister detective here just realised. The comments even say "Is it possible that it was on 12.09.2023 at 22:35? We were in Höfn watching the northern lights when we saw it" and a reply confirms it
Is this some type of long exposure video setup?