Personal responsibility is where this starts. Not with the US, not with Israel or the Philippines. It starts with us, the technical people that do these things.
Would Apple being totally incompetent at security and fighting exploits from NK prison labor, eventually with about the same fail rate, be a better world?
Export control on thoughts didn't work, so total disarmament on thoughts won't work. Prioritize security, cut out some of the entertainment and useless features through regulation because brain candy always wins in an unregulated market.
So personal responsibility is where it starts and there isn't a fig leaf large enough that would allow you to pretend otherwise.