Let's say I'm waiting for a package to arrive and it's late. As each minute passes, does the chance of it coming the very next minute increase or decrease?
One could say it increases because since it will eventually come and I have passed all the previous minutes they haven't come, then the remaining minutes until it comes comprise a smaller percentage of the all the remaining minutes, increasing the chance each minute.
However up to a certain point the chance may decrease, as in, if it is "late" in a substantial sense, whatever caused it being something that delayed it a significant amount of time increases as time elapses, as the chances of it being something small that caused the lateness decreases as each minute passes.