Since we’re being honest, the only effects I’ve noticed are going soft after 20 minutes or so, and more difficulty finishing. Sidenafil helps with the former. As for the latter, it isn’t every time, and I don’t mind it much, but everyone’s different.
I think it’s important to address this issue head on though. The horror stories of sexual dysfunction were one reason I put off trying antidepressants. But (a) you’ll see the effects coming on gradually, (b) it’s not permanent, and (c) for me it wasn’t nearly as intense as people made it seem.