You can stop using them
If someone takes a picture of you and posts it on Instagram, they are still using your data.
The only solution here are new laws about retaining ownership of your data even if it's been uploaded to a third party.
But also, laws can be changed, which is my point.
IANAL
https://codes.findlaw.com/ca/penal-code/pen-sect-632.html
In fact I doubt there's fully relevant case law, as I think the case would be that the trained model is the recording device, and it could be demonstrated that verbatim strings from presumed confidential communications are regurgitated by the model when appropriately prompted.
Wouldn't this also be a violation of the same Two Party Consent law that you're trying to apply here?