You'd be calling for his head just the same if Starlink fucked up and guided a missile into a refugee camp.
https://www.reuters.com/world/europe/musk-says-he-refused-ky...
I mean Musk still says he talked to Putin, but I think he didn't make a terrible decision in this particular case, as much as I would have loved to see the outcome.
He had never enabled the internet where they asked him to; he declined to do so, which is a subtle difference, but a difference nonetheless.
If you don't like a single billionaire being able to materially affect the outcome of a conflict between nation states, vote for nationalization of all ISPs and a strong bill of digital rights to protect it.
https://www.cnn.com/2023/09/10/europe/ukraine-starlink-not-a...
But the problem in this particular instance is not Elon. The problem is that everyone is going along with the system where we let Billionaires run the show as they see fit.
If you want this to not happen, you have to change the system.
The US is more then happy to see there weapons used on Crimea as they have in the past repeatedly iterated.
Crimea is part of Ukraine not Russia.