I was just objecting to the idea that being against discrimination seems like a no-brainer. It isn't because the status quo widely allows it, if only it's the correct type.
So if I get catcalled as a guy once in 3 years it has a different impact than a girl getting catcalled twice a day.
If someone discriminates me for my white skin once or twice, while I have profited from it my whole life, this is od course wrong, but it won't hurt my prospect in life. If I had a dark skin the racism would be a daily occurance and something that seriously impacts my prospect in life.
So if the actual impact in reality differs, we can also treat those things differently in policy, don't you think?