I really don’t buy this argument that only some small “special” fraction of apps “actually” need async, and for the rest of us “plebs” we should be relegated to blocking.

Async is just hard. That’s it. It’s fundamentally difficult.

In my experience language implementations of async fall into 2-axes: clarity and control. C# is straightforward-enough (having cribbed its async design off functional languages) but I find it scores low on the “clarity” scale and moderate-high in control, because you could control it, but it was t always clear.

JS is moderate-high clarity, low control: easy to understand, because all the knobs are set for you. Before it got async/await sugar, I’d have said it would have been low clarity, because I’ve seen the promise/callback hell people wrote when given rope.

Python is the bottom of the barrel for both clarity and control. It genuinely has to have the most awful and confusing async design I’ve ever seen.

I personally find Rust scores high in both clarity and control. Playing with the Glommio executor was what really solidified my understanding of how async works however.