Yeah, we didn't have YC money for a website designer, unfortunately.
Last time I looked, YC doesn't invest much in the companies it accepts.
But I want to focus on the overall tone that you've taken in this discussion: You're playing the victim. It's hurting your credibility.
I assume that you applied to other incubators? That you've tried to pitch other venture capitalists and other sources of funding?
Why aren't you getting what you're looking for? Don't assume it's because everyone is sexist! Be honest with yourself!