It's quite a clever system that uses market greed to incentivize building. It's the same system as railroads, imagine if railroads could not share tracks with each other.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arrangements_between_railroads...
Some places also vote to have the city or town connect with Fiber which then puts tax money aside for it.
In many places it is the power companies that run fiber and they are mostly partially or fully state owned. The lagest ISP also has the state as the majority share holder.
It's whether you want to pay through it via tax dollars or directly.
As it stimulates the economy similar to how laying new train track does.
It's the same for power, one or two companies lay the cable, myriad others sell the service.