You personally wouldn't be upset at all if a loved one died to a bug in the software that caused the self-driving car to make an obvious mistake that the loved one would never in a million years have made themselves?
I can see how people can have concerns at least, when control it taken away.
Riding a motorcycle is 60x more dangerous than a car per mile.
I have easily done over 100,000 miles on a sportsbike in California traffic.
That's the equivalent of 6 Million miles in a car. I have had one close call in 10 years. Never even stubbed a toe on a motorcycle.
I consider ceasing to interpret my own survivor bias as skill instead of luck, getting over myself.
But honestly, I am a pretty skilled rider. I just don't have to use most of it on the road... I said myself I only had one close call in 10 years. Only that moment really involved skill.
The smart and the wise seek automation and others to multiply their effort. The lazy and the less molecular wedge-like instruments do things the hard way(tm) themselves. It doesn't take a particle physics PhD to be resourceful, improvisational, and productive.